Who's to blame for a sleeping 5-year-old girl being left behind in the back of a taxi after her family was dropped off?
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Who's to blame for a sleeping 5-year-old girl being left behind in the back of a taxi after her family was dropped off?
Who's to blame for a sleeping 5-year-old girl being left behind in the back of a taxi after her family was dropped off?
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Listen the Cabbie Drives the Cab and the Parents Watch Their Kids. Leave the guy alone. hope that the parents pay the attorney fee for the cab driver.
This has got to be one of the biggest wastes of time in the history of Newsvine. Theres no blame - the girl was returned before the next fair and I am sure both parties felt dumb about it. There is plenty of other things we could be discussing to like HEALTHCARE!!! STIMULUS!!! WASTEFULL SPENDING!!
Read the story; the parents DIDN'T blame the cabbie...they tipped him $50!!!! It's when the police got involved that the blame game started. As ususal, the cops got it wrong; it is ALWAYS the parents responsibility to keep their children safe and accountable when they are travelling with them. It's sad that this has even happened to the cabbie, being dragged before a disciplinary committe and "getting off easy" with a warning. I'm so glad that the little girl is safe and sound and I am sure this family will never forget her again!
My 12 year old son says the parents should've remembered their own child. I can't even imagine how far gone I would have to be to forget my own child but remember my luggage in a vehicle. I don't know ALL of the circumstances, but thank God it didn't turn out worse. May God bless us all.
Who is to blame? JC the kid fell asleep on the back bench of the mini van parents did a head count and realilized the kid was still in the cab but by then the cab had left. The parents got hold of the cab Co. and police, kid is home all is well. Anyone who does not see it this way is a sue happy liberal. Who's to blame, the GD liberals.
Mark: Liberals, huh? WTH you talking about? How do you get from parental stupidity to blaming an ideology? Really.... SERIOUSLY....
Wow, it only took 1 thread to bring politics into this.
Mark...excuse me!! The liberals??? This is the parents fault and only thiers. Now, if it had been luggage, ok, but a child? How do you forget your child?
But it sure as hell has nothing to do with liberals!
Read the article by the Washington Post titled "Fatal Distraction". This certainly wasn't the cabbies fault, it was somewhat the parents fault. But really it was the fault of the police for blowing it out of proportion. Thankfully it didn't turn out like the cases in that article.
Are you kidding me with this? The parents who failed to keep track of their children are to blame. Those children should be taken into state custody until it can be verified that these people are fit to raise children. If they were so inept at parenting to leave a child in the back of a cab (and why wasn't the child in a seat belt such that she would have been visible), then what's next, leaving the child at a grocery story, library or, God forbid, a parked car in the heat of the day? The cab driver is not to blame for this incident. The hapless parents should step forward, take the blame, apologize to the cab driver and pay his legal fees.
really? really? state custody? why don't we put them in foster care where they may be used as virtual slaves or molested! that'll teach those parents. Also, it sounds like there were two rows of seats and that the child was in the furthest one back. bad mistake? yes. state custody to determine parental fitness? no. this is not the same thing as leaving your child ON PURPOSE in a parked car to go bar hopping. The fact that they immediately called and were so grateful to get their child back and that the father was so happy and grateful to the driver. The problem is that they had to have called the cab company (since calls don't go directly to cabs) and the cab company would have to figure out which cab it was and then legally enforce whatever rules they had in place against the driver for not checking his vehicle. So, not the driver's fault. The parents acted quickly and probably fell like idiots. Which is all the punishment deserved. Sheesh. Get a grip.
Mistakes happen and these parents made a MISTAKE. You, being a perfect human being, wouldn't understand that. With that being said, state custody? I am giving you the benefit of the doubt. You may have gone without sleep for the past 48 hours or have a loved one who is extremely ill. If you haven't figured this out, I am providing you all kinds of excuses for making such an irrational suggestion. Hey, let's cause these children some real psychological issues and take them away from their families and place them into state custody with a bunch of strangers. You may want to think before you respond.
I would have been inclined to believe it was an honest mistake by a tired family returning from a trip UNTIL I realized the family called the police trying to get the cab driver in trouble.
He drove back to their house after THEY failed in their duty to care for their child. Clearly to those parents their luggage was more important than their children.
Because of the way the GUILTY parents tried to blame the cab driver for their mistake they should have to pay for his attorney, and BE WATCHED CLOSELY BY HRS!
If they are not mature enough to accept responsibility for their OWN actions they surely can't be trusted around children.
The fact that there is a vote of blame - well, that says everything - we don't have anything better to do? As to those people saying that the "kid should be taken away" - you should be ashamed of yourself. I am a foster parent. The level at which you would throw around that kind of suggestion really shows your ignorance and insensitivity towards children. Foster care is nothing to be taken lightly...for the sake of innocent children, please rethink that before you throw it out there so callously next time.
When did it ever say the family was calling the police to get the taxi driver in trouble? They called the cab pool at the airport to get their child back... the cab company then contacted the police as protocol. Yes, the family is responsible for the negligence of their child, but you don't know under what circumstances the mistake was made. I am sure the family has apologized, but no one's going to hear about it because it doesn't make good news. I think the family has learned their lesson, so we should all drop it and move on...
I don't think the parents should lose custody or anything as drastic as that, but I certainly think that it is their responsibility to keep track of their child, not the cab driver. Cab drivers pick up and drop off many people in the course of their shifts and while he should check the back of the cab for items left behind, it should not be a big deal if he forgets. These parents, on the other hand, only have one 5-year-old child as far as I can tell so the fact that they didn't notice that she was not among those exiting the cab seems to be pretty negligent. At least they got her as far as the cab in Boston. What if they had left her in the cab at the other airport? She would be in another city without her parents. Would they have noticed she wasn't on the plane with them? The cabbie responded appropriately and did the right thing. The police over-reacted by suspending his license (livelihood) and yet the parents get off without any punishment for child endangerment (at the least child neglect)? They must have had money. Just sayin'
I agree with it being the parents fault, but state custody? I'm sure as hell glad you're not the one making those executive decisions for the courts. It was a mistake & everything turned out okay, that's what's important. That doesn't make them bad parents.
definitely it's not the driver's fault. the parents ought to have made sure everyone was accounted for particularly the smallest ones.
OMG...were the parents drunk or what???? Who could possibly leave their child in a cab or otherwise?! This guy could have been some pervert but he took "the high road" and did what a responsible person would do....unlike the parents! If anyone is to blame it is the parents!
what high road? he was told there was a child in his car and he turned around. He was neither saint nor sinner.
What a crock! The police and child services outght to be visiting that family. People need to wake up in this country and start taking responsibility for ther own selves whether it is a mistake or an achievement. Absolutely sad and pathetic!!!
Yes people in this country do not own up to their own mistakes. It's always someone else's fault. It' a dangerous trend that continues to grow. Thank God the child was okay. How long does a qiuck head count take?
I don't agree with child services being brought into the mix but I think the parents should be fined for sheer and blatent stupidity...I understand that they gave the Taxi driver a $50 tip, but seriously, their child is only worth $50? At a minimum the parents should be paying any expendatures for this seriously stupid act.
Hopefully his union is providing any legal help he may need! But for the City of Boston to even think about penalizing the cabbie in this matter and not the parents is ludicrous! I'm pretty sure that the law was put on the books so that PROPERTY wasn't stolen or lost!
But what would have happened if the parents had left the child at the airport or even wherever they were visiting prior to getting on the airplane? Yes, mistakes happen... with misplaced luggage, but with a child's life in the balance these people shouldn't be travelling or allowed to take their children out in public if they can be this absent-minded.
How can any parent forget their child, especially if you're riding in cab! When they got out of the cab, they should've @!$%#ed heads or at least look in the backseat! The cab driver's not to blame at all, he can't see who's back there if the kid's laying down and not making any noise. I mean, the cab driver was obviously a n okay guy to take him or her back to the parents, but you just don't know people these days. Those parents are very irresponsable.
Does no one take responsibility for anything anymore?? Why should the cabbie be held accountable for someone else's child. The rule about checking the cab is for items not people!
It was the parents fault, you just don't forget you children in a cab, or anywere for that matter. If your going to have children you have to be resonsible for them.
It is the parents fault. You just don't leave your children in cab or anywhere for that matter. If you going to have children, you have to be reasonsible for them.
Is this for real? What has society come to? Hopefully the parents don't actually think it is the cab driver's fault! They should feel extremely lucky that he turned out to be a decent, honest man. This situation could have turned out MUCH worse. It is really quite disgusting how parents' responsibilities are so quickly pawned off on other people...what is this teaching kids in America? That it's okay to shift the blame to others and not own your own mistakes? Unbelievable.
Is this for real? What has society come to? Hopefully the parents don't actually think it is the cab driver's fault! They should feel extremely lucky that he turned out to be a decent, honest man. This situation could have turned out MUCH worse. It is really quite disgusting how parents' responsibilities are so quickly pawned off on other people...what is this teaching kids in America? That it's okay to shift the blame to others and not own your own mistakes?Unbelievable.
Is this for real? What has society come to? Hopefully the parents don't actually think it is the cab driver's fault! They should feel extremely lucky that he turned out to be a decent, honest man. This situation could have turned out MUCH worse. It is really quite disgusting how parents' responsibilities are so quickly pawned off on other people...what is this teaching kids in America? That it's okay to shift the blame to others and not own your own mistakes?Unbelievable.
Hello? Do you read. The article said the parents were really happy and the father gave the cabbie an extra $50 tip. Obviously they DON'T blame the cab driver. Read before you rant, ok?
The fact that Boston Police actually attempted to penalize the Cabbie for the misdeeds of that child's Parents, is the height of idiocy. As a parent, the first thing you should put into the house is your SLEEPING CHILD! To make sure you have everything and NOT check to make sure your child was brought shows gross negligence. If anyone should be under investigation, it's the parents.
This scares me big time... where are we going?
The 80's were the "me" generation when we were all about "me" and what make it all good for "me".
In the 90's we became the "you" generation, after we decided that "me" is ok and "you" need to make us better.
Now apparently in the 00's it "anybody else" whose responsible for our own actions... (no wonder the economy and world is so desparate eh?)
I do understand stuff happens, and this could have ended worse, but TWO PARENTS missed the kid... and the third person who's job is to drive the car, looses 3 days of income (Don't think the $50 tip covered that) is the only one who gets any blame whatsoever? The Boston cops should be warning the parents about child abandonment, not the cabbie about anything!
Where was Child Protective Services on this one? Really, you're gonna blame the cabbie?
The cab driver is paid to drive a cab, not babysit. The parents were probably tired, relieved to be home. But a child is always the responsability of the parent. Period. I cannot believe the police would waste time even warning the driver, how stupid can you get.
I guess we all agree,,,, it was the parents fault, but to even think of blaming the cabbie OMG,thank God he is an honest and decent person,,and if I was the father of that poor child I would pay the days the poor taxi driver lost { I know your reading man}
Another example how people do not hold the parents responsible... the kids don't do well in school, the teacher/school are the only people responsible to help them...
It is ridiculous that a cabbie should be held responsible IN ANY WAY for the whereabouts of the child of a fair... they also shouldn't be responsible for checking the car after every fair... if people leave without their stuff, a cabbie shouldn't be held accountable for that either...
I'm not sure it is necessary to investigate the family but seriously, the parents are the only people accountable for taking care of their children in this situation.. leave the cabbie alone... and the parents should have tipped a hell of a lot more than $50 ... WTF!!!! It's your kid, not jewelry....
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Since when do other people become responsible for our children? The cab driver was not at fault and should not be held accountable.